Introduction
to the

Wheel of Consent®

3 hrs in-person workshop

Dates:

Fri, Apr 26, 2024 (7-10pm) · HAMBURG · DE ➜ Register [HH03]
Fr, May 24, 2024 (7-10pm) · BERLIN · DE ➜ Register [B08]
Fri, Jun 7, 2024 (7:15-10:15pm) · MUNICH · DE ➜ Register [M01]

So, Jul 21, 2024 (12-3pm) · BERLIN · DE ➜ Register [B09]
Mo, Sept 23, 2024 (7-10pm) · COLOGNE · DE Register [KB04]
So, Oct 13, 2024 (12-3pm) · BERLIN · DE ➜ Register [B10]
Fri, Oct. 25, 2024 (7-10pm) · HAMBURG · DE ➜ Register [HH04]

Events are either in German DE or English EN.

Practice knowing what you want, learn to ask for it!
A playful and fun three-hour introduction
to consent, choice and desire.

໑ Have you ever said “YES”, but actually meant “NO”?
໑ Have you ever said “NO”, but actually wanted to say “YES”?
໑ Did you ever receive a “gift” which you didn’t want?
໑ Was it ever difficult to ask for something you longed for?
໑ Have you ever been ashamed of your desire?
໑ Have you ever been unclear and hesitant about what you wanted?

If your answer to any of these questions is “YES”, you might be interested in exploring the dynamics of consent and how to more clearly and fully express your desires. In the 3-hour experiential workshop I’m offering, you will experience why a “NO” is always a “YES” to something else; why “NO.” is a complete sentence; why consent, boundaries and clarity don’t limit and restrict passion, emotions, lust and romance, but quite the opposite! You will learn that clear and unambiguous choices can be fun, pleasurable and sexy.

I believe that only when you know what you want, can you ask for it. Only when you know what you don’t want, can you set and clearly communicate your boundaries. Only when you are able to say “NO”, can you also enthusiastically say “YES” (and visa versa).

▪️ WHAT WE’LL COVER:

This workshop is not about some abstract moral concept—it is about exploring the dynamics of consent, noticing how consent feels in our bodies and minds, and then taking responsibility for our choices.

Questions we’ll explore:

໑ How does it feel to say “YES”?
໑ How does it feel to say “NO”?
໑ How do you notice what you want?
໑ In what circumstances and environments might it be challenging to know what you want?
໑ How easy or difficult is it to voice what you want?

We will explore the dynamics of giving and receiving with playful interactive exercises and games. We will practice how to make agreements before interacting with each other. We will learn why a felt and embodied sense of safety is essential for any human interaction.

One of the practices we will use is what I call the “Just for You Game”, also known as the “Three Minute Game” invented by Harry Faddis and used by Betty Martin as a foundation to develop her renowned The Wheel of Consent®.

The Wheel of Consent® is a model of consent based on (but not requiring) exchanges of touch. The Wheel notes the distinction between the ‘doing’ aspect of the touch dynamic—who is doing—and the ‘gift’ aspect—who it is for.

This workshop is a somatic introduction to the principles of The Wheel of Consent®, it does not cover it all. For a full coverage see my 2½ day long Wheel of Consent® Seminar.

Workshop Dates

Introduction to the Wheel of Consent®
(3 hrs)

This workshop is suitable for both individuals and couples. The event language, depending on the date, is either German [DE] or English [EN]. Please see the important travel planning note below.


Berlin [DE]

🗓 Samstag, 9. März 2024, 15:00-18:00 Uhr — auf Deutsch
— Dieser Termin ist inzwischen ausgebucht. Eintrag auf Warteliste ist möglich. Neue Termine für Berlin werden bald bekannt gegeben. —
🏠 Ort: IM NEUEN RAUM · Elsenstrasse 106 · 12435 Berlin (Treptow) · GoogleMaps · Facebook
💶 Kosten: 45-75€ pro Person pro Termin
👤 maximal 12 Teilnehmende

Jetzt anmelden [B06]


Köln [DE]

🗓 Montag, 25. März 2024, 19:00-22:00 Uhr — auf Deutsch
🏠 Ort: Praxis Blicköffnung im Forum La Vida ·
Bernhardstr. 15, 50968 Köln (Bayenthal) · GoogleMaps · Facebook
💶 Kosten: 45-75€ pro Person pro Termin
👤 maximal 14 Teilnehmende

Jetzt anmelden [KB03]


Berlin [EN]

🗓 Saturday, April 13, 2023, 3:00 p.m — 6:00 p.m. — in English
🏠 Venue: Somatische Akademie Berlin · Paul-Lincke-Ufer 30 · 10967 Berlin (Kreuzberg) · GoogleMaps · Facebook
💶 Fee: 45-75€ per person per event
👤 max. 12 participants

Register now [B07EN]

Discount available for war refugees from Ukraine. If in need, please, reach out. This workshop is being held in cooperation with Berlin-Kyiv-based massage therapist and kink educator Natasha Kuzmina.


Hamburg [DE]

🗓 Freitag, 26. April 2024, 19:00-22:00 Uhr — auf Deutsch
🏠 Ort: Praxis für Sexualberatung Hamburg · Am Felde 2, 22765 Hamburg (Altona-Ottensen) · GoogleMaps · Facebook
💶 Kosten: 45-75€ pro Person pro Termin
👤 maximal 14 Teilnehmende

 Jetzt anmelden [HH03]


München [DE]

🗓 Freitag, 7. Juni 2024, 19:15-22:15 Uhr — auf Deutsch
🏠 Ort: numi Yoga & Entspannung · Ickstattstraße 2B · 80469 München · GoogleMaps · Facebook
💶 Kosten: 45-75€ pro Person pro Termin
👤 ca. 14 Teilnehmende

 Jetzt anmelden [M01]


🕖 Important Note for Planning Your Arrival:
I kindly request that you arrive at least 15 minutes prior to the event’s scheduled start time. To ensure a smooth experience, please be aware that the doors will close promptly at the specified time, and the workshop will commence. Due to the unique nature of this event, late arrivals, unfortunately, cannot be accommodated.

Wheel of Consent® Workshop in your city?

Would you like to host this workshop in your city? Contact me! The language of the event can be German, English or Czech. It is possible to interpret into other languages. I have good command of Russian.

▪️ CONTACT:
Feel free to contact me if you have any questions about the event:

▪️ WHAT TO BRING:
Comfortable clothing that will not restrict your movement and will make you feel good about yourself. Water bottle.

▪️ SAFETY & FRAMEWORK:

Consider all exercises and interactions during this event as an invitation. All activities are optional. You will not be required to participate in any exercises if you don’t feel like it. All choices are honored. You may choose to learn simply by observing. At this event we will remain fully clothed.

People of all sexual orientations and gender identities are welcome.

Please, read the Group Guidelines!

▪️ ABOUT THE FACILITATOR ONDRA VELTRUSKÝ:

Ondra Veltruský is a somatic (body-oriented) sex coach. He helps people discovering what they want to experience in the realm of sexuality and intimacy. In addition to conversations, he works with trauma-sensitive touch coaching and the conscious use of breath, voice, and movement.

As a certified Wheel of Consent® Facilitator, he conducts workshops on consent and communication throughout Germany.

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Overview of All Events
in all languages

past events are greyed out
WOC = Wheel of Consent

Workshop nameDateCity / CountryVenueLanguage
WOC SEMINARNov 15-17, 2024HamburgPraxis für SexualberatungDE
WOC INTROOct 25, 2024Hamburg DEUPraxis für SexualberatungDE
WOC INTROOct 13, 2024Berlin DEUSomatische Akademie BerlinDE
WOC INTROSep 23, 2024Cologne DEUBlicköffnungDE
WOC INTROJul 21, 2024Berlin DEUSomatische Akademie BerlinDE
WOC SEMINARJul 5-7, 2024Berlin DEUUHU NestDE
INFO EVENTJun 19, 2024ONLINEZOOMDE
WOC INTROJun 7, 2024Munich DEUnumi Yoga & EntspannungDE
WOC INTROMay 24, 2024Berlin DEUSomatische Akademie BerlinDE
INFO EVENTMay 15, 2024ONLINEZOOMDE
WOC INTROApr 26, 2024Hamburg DEUPraxis für SexualberatungDE
INFO EVENTApr 18, 2024ONLINEZOOMDE
WOC INTRO
Mar 25, 2024
Cologne DEU
BLICKÖFFNUNG
DE
INFO EVENT
Mar 20, 2024
ONLINE
ZOOM
DE
WOC INTRO
Mar 9, 2024
Berlin DEU
IM NEUEN RAUM
DE
INFO EVENT
Mar 7, 2024
ONLINE
ZOOM
EN
INFO EVENT
Feb 21, 2024
ONLINE
ZOOM
DE
WOC SEMINAR
Feb 9-11, 2024
Berlin DEU
UHU Nest
DE
INFO EVENT
Jan 24, 2024
ONLINE
ZOOM
DE
INFO EVENT
Jan 15, 2024
ONLINE
ZOOM
EN
WOC INTRO
Jan 12, 2024
Hamburg DEU
Praxis für Sexualberatung
DE
WOC INTRO
Dec 16, 2023
Berlin
IM NEUEN RAUM
EN
INFO EVENT
Dec 14, 2023
ONLINE
ZOOM
DE
INFO EVENT
Nov 29, 2023
ONLINE
ZOOM
EN
WOC INTRO
Nov 24, 2023
Berlin
IM NEUEN RAUM
DE
INFO EVENT
Nov 8, 2023
ONLINE
ZOOM
DE
WOC INTRO
Oct 30, 2023
Cologne DEU
BLICKÖFFNUNG
DE
WOC INTRO
Oct 16, 2023
Hamburg DEU
Praxis für Sexualberatung
DE
INFO EVENT
Oct 12, 2023
ONLINE
ZOOM
DE
WOC INTRO
Oct 8, 2023
Ravensburg DEU
TAO-INSTITUT
DE
WOC INTRO
Sep 16, 2023
Berlin DEU
IM NEUEN RAUM
DE
INFO EVENT
Sep 12, 2023
ONLINE
ZOOM
DE
INFO EVENT
Jul 18, 2023
ONLINE
ZOOM
DE
WHEEL OF
CONSENT
SEMINAR
Jun 16-18, 2023
Rösrath near
Cologne DEU
RAUM FÜR
ACHTSAMKEIT
DE
INFO EVENT
Jun 6, 2023
ONLINE
ZOOM
DE
INFO EVENT
May 15, 2023
ONLINE
ZOOM
DE
WOC INTRO
Apr 15, 2023
Cologne DEU
PRAXIS
BLICKÖFFNUNG
DE
INFO EVENT
Apr. 11, 2023
ONLINE
ZOOM
DE
INFO EVENT
Mar 16, 2023
ONLINE
ZOOM
DE
INFO EVENT
Feb 22, 2023
ONLINE
ZOOM
DE
WHEEL OF CONSENT
WORKSHOP
Jan 27-29, 2023
Rösrath near
Cologne  DEU
RAUM FÜR
ACHTSAMKEIT
DE
WOC INTRO
Jan 15, 2023
Cologne DEU
DAKINI (Ebertplatz)
DE
WOC INTRO
Dec 4, 2022
Cologne DEU
ANANDA
DE
WOC INTRO
Oct 22, 2022
Cologne DEU
ANANDA
DE
WOC INTRO
Aug 3, 2022
Cologne DEU
ANANDA
DE
WOC INTRO
Jun 25, 2022
Cologne DEU
ANANDA
DE
WOC INTRO
May 21, 2022
Berlin DEU
IM NEUEN RAUM
DE
WOC INTRO
May 3, 2022
Cologne DEU
ANANDA
DE
WOC INTRO
Dec 5, 2021
Rösrath near
Cologne DEU
RAUM FÜR
ACHTSAMKEIT
DE
WOC INTRO
Nov 6, 2021
Cologne DEU
ANANDA
DE
WOC INTRO
Aug 24, 2021
Cologne DEU
ANANDA
DE
WOC INTRO
Sep 19, 2020
Cologne DEU
ANANDA
DE
WOC INTRO
Aug 23, 2020
Cologne DEU
ANANDA
DE
WOC INTRO
Mar 10, 2020
Cologne DEU
ANANDA
DE
TOUHA a SOUHLAS
Mar 1, 2020
Brno CZE
CESTA INTEGRITY
CS
TOUHA a SOUHLAS
Jan 29, 2020
Brno CZE
CESTA INTEGRITY
CS
CONSENT & DESIRE
Jan 22, 2020
Cologne DEU
ANANDA
DE
TOUHA a SOUHLAS
Jan 16, 2020
Prague CZE
CS
TOUHA a SOUHLAS
Dec 17, 2019
Prague CZE
CS

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