by Betty Martin
The 3-Minute Game, created by Harry Faddis and adapted by Betty Martin, is a simple touch practice built around two questions: How you want to touch someone? and How you want to be touched?, each for three minutes.
These interactions form the basis of The Wheel of Consent® and help clarify desire, boundaries, and consent by distinguishing who is acting and who benefits. Practiced between two people, it develops self-awareness, communication, and the ability to give, receive touch authentically, without pressure to override personal limits.
On the website of the School of Consent, the 3 Minute Game can be downloaded as a PDF in various other languages. When printed out, most languages can be folded into a multi-page small booklet (video tutorial).
» More information about the Wheel of Consent®
* 🖨 When printing, DO NOT use “fit to paper” but use “100% size” instead, otherwise the folding of the booklet may not work well.
